D A N C E

When you approach her, this is how a woman looks at you. When you approach her face to face, she is, from head to toe, scanning you with her eyes. She is looking for flaws and weaknesses. This transmits to her brain in a matter of seconds, and it gives her a reason to reject you. In sales this is called objections and rebuttals. In sales, when a prospect gives you an objection, it means there is a reason he doesn't want to buy. You, as the salesman, must come up with a rebuttal, giving the prospect a reason why he or she should buy.

You have to do the same thing in approaching beautiful women. This, in many cases, is going to catch her off guard, because she is not going to be used to someone who gets up after she knocks them down. So if she rejects you, ask her a question. When she says, "I'm not interested" then say, "Maybe you can help me for the future? What part of me is it that you are not interested in?" After you ask her this question, it's going to be like throwing a bucket of cold water in her face. She is going to be shocked and for the most part say nothing. If she does say something, you are going to get information from her that is going to make you the big winner.

Now if she says nothing, you come back and ask, "Are there some undesirable features that I have that you don't like?" This is how you throw the ball back in her court to your advantage. You ask her, "Well, are you not interested in me because you think my nose is too big? Or is it because you think my lips and my body are too thin? Or is it that my body is too fat? Or what is it exactly you don't like about me?"

Believe me, she is not used to receiving this kind of feedback from people she rejects. As a result, it's going to make the computer system in her brain go haywire. Her emotions are going to kick in, and if she has any sense of humor at all, she is going to burst out laughing. If she starts laughing, then you've won the ballgame. Start laughing with her and extend your hand and say, "My name is Jeff. What's yours?"

You have no idea how many relationships were saved, just because there were men who were not afraid to challenge her. There are a lot of beautiful women who are with men who are so ugly that they have to sneak up on a glass of water. Most of these beautiful women will tell you, "Oh, when I met him, I didn't like him at first." The rest is history, and beauty and the beast are living happily ever after.

You must be resilient. It takes thick skin and a great big sense of humor. If you are average to below average in appearance, don't be afraid to pick yourself apart and laugh at yourself. Sometimes, in order to win her love, certain sacrifices have to be made. Remember that meeting and dating is a game, and no one has ever said you have to play by certain rules.