D A N C E

The more you give to her, unselfishly and cheerfully, the better your dating relationship is going to become. She wants you to give her your undivided attention. She wants you continually to make her feel that she is important in your life. There are so many women who get involved with men who neglect them. Loneliness, frustration and depression set in and they announce (it's been said so many times that it sounds like a broken record) that they are unhappy with the men that they are involved with. So they break up because of irreconcilable differences in their relationship.

It's a fact that over 60% of today's married women are frustrated with their spouses. The divorce courts are full of women who are angry and frustrated. They want out of a bad relationship so they can be free to fly to greener pastures. These people, in their courting and dating stages of life, closed their eyes to all of the issues and did nothing to build a solid dating foundation.

There are two reasons why people fail so miserably in dating:

They close their eyes to all of their problems and sweep them under the rug.

A person who stands for nothing will fall for anything.

You have to know yourself and what you want in a woman before you even begin, or you'll just spend the rest of your life spinning your wheels. A rule of thumb to follow is this: Don't date or get involved with anyone who has more problems than you have. If you do, you are just setting yourself up for a life of drudgery, misery and doom.

Avoid women who are in deep debt financially. Also avoid those who suffer from emotional problems and have to take heavy medications like Prozac and Zanex. Women who have serious issues in their lives are easy to meet because they're looking for someone to solve their serious problems. You are not a problem-solver. You are a male suitor who dates only beautiful healthy-minded women. These women come from well-to-do, stable families who live functional lifestyles. There are exceptions to the rule, but these are few and far between. You don't need nor do you want a dysfunctional woman in your life. These types of women are takers, users and manipulators who have no appreciation for who or what you are. It is important for you to be aware of this tidbit of information. You cannot tell the difference, in a whole lot of cases, between a good woman and a bad woman by just looking at her. If you are treating a woman like a queen, and she is treating you like a doormat, then you are dealing with someone who is not good for you. You are trying to be a nice guy, and you don't need abusive treatment from anyone in any way, shape or form. The main thing is for you immediately to be able to distinguish a good woman from a bad one. Do this when you first meet them, rather than waiting until the later stages of a relationship.