D A N C E

Your first date with a woman was successful. It's wise to wait a few days before you call her for a second date. Let it all sink in as to what a good time she had with you. You want to call her by her first name often to personalize yourself with her. This will give her a strong sense that she knows you.

Your next phone call to her will lead up to a second date. You want to tell her how much you enjoyed her company and to thank her again for going out with you. On the first date, for example, if she told you she had a passion for gourmet food, you want to play on that. Tell her you've been thinking about certain dishes that she likes, and you happened to come across some recipes that are really great. This will get her excited. After three days, she's working up an appetite. If she's into seafood, you really get into telling her how it's prepared the way she likes it. In order to keep her intrigued, you come up with a whole, brand-new, brainstorm idea that will knock her socks off. You tell her that you are really into cooking (even if you are not) and that you think it would be great to get together at your place or hers to prepare a home-cooked gourmet meal. Tell her that you and she can go to the grocery store and pick out the items needed for this great meal that you and she are going to prepare.

Now what you've created here is a food project where you are working together as a team. She intuitively is drawn to this idea, and it makes her think, "Here is a man who is open-minded and down-to-earth. He really wants to go out of his way to try and please me." Believe me, even if you never boiled water in your life, the two of you can make this work. You both can get tips from family and friends before you begin. You go to the grocery store. You buy your items and go back to your place together. Then you begin to prepare a beautiful candle-light, gourmet dinner. In the process you are talking back and forth and conversing with each other. Even if the only thing you know how to do is peel potatoes, then that's fine. Someone has to do it.

In creating this first home-cooked meal together, there is an evolution that is taking place between you and her. If she's come from good parents, she knows the significance of family ties, and therefore she is associating you as an extension of her family. You are bonding with her and developing a strong, stable relationship. Glamour, fashion, and a well-to-do lifestyle appeal to her, and you are showing her that. Also, you are proving that you can be at the top of the charts when it comes to living the good life.

Women want and women crave a man who can be domesticated. She will tell her family about this wonderful experience she has had with you. Before they even meet you, this will get the family to say, "Hey, we think our daughter has found a good man to spend her quality time with." This is a one-on-one date where you share your thoughts and ideas so that they blend and grow into something meaningful. In two dates you are showing her that your word is your bond, and that you are a trustworthy man. She can depend and rely on you for almost anything imaginable. This is where the wheels are really turning 100 miles an hour in her head. You are scoring points with her, like no tomorrow, and you want to keep it up.